random life stuff

non binary rant

So I came out as non binary to parents. With my mom it was easy and she said she would respect my pronouns and If she forgets I can correct her.

My dad said he would do that to but still insists on referring to me as she/her and his daughter. Obviously this poses issues and when I told him that I wasn't comfortable with him doing that he said "well you are still a girl. You have girl parts therefore you are my daughter not just my child."

I really wanted to tell him that my sex is female not my gender. Gender is all up here, not down there. But I didn't I just said ok because i didn't want to argue with him.

I later got super dysphoric and proceeded to have a mental break down. Speaking of which, there's a myth that non binary people don't have dysphoria or experience it on a lesser level. Very not true absolutely not true. Non binary. peaople. Have. Dysphoria. Too.

Lastly to anyone who thinks this

Accurately represents a non binary person gender get that shit out of here right now.
Being non binary is more like this

Being non binary is out of the binary, not in between a girl and a boy, just completely something else entirely.

I know I talked about like three different points and I don't know if it made much since but I needed to rant. I sincerely hope you guys have a wonderful life and stay healthy during this pandemic.

And stop buying so much gosh darn toilet paper.