Inside Quosmé's Messed Up Head

Change Is Good

   "I'm looking for someone who can accept me for who and what I am."

   Oh, please!

   Stop it!

   Your intentions might be good and simple but for me it's no different from begging somebody to accept you.

   And it's not right. It's not fair to you. It's not fair to the person who loves you.

   It's complete selfishness.

   You can't always expect people to change their beliefs, their perspectives, their attitude, just for you.

   Because it's not always about you. It's not always about how you feel. It's not always about what you want or what you dislike.

   It's about learning how to put our differences aside in order to build a beautiful relationship.

   So instead of looking for someone who can accept you for who you are, find someone who will make you want to change yourself willingly.

   Coz that's what love is. You are willing to change yourself, or at least, something about yourself for the person you love.

   It's when a beautiful relationship starts.