To fool a black girl

Introduction

If you are a black girl, then you know how hard it is to cope with everyday life. Despite the fact that the world gives you its Butt to kiss. Whether you're trying to get a good job, get into college or just trying to make some money to get you by through the day, you know it's never easy and always comes with a price to pay.

But the one struggle every black girl has to deal with is "That Dude". Every black girl has had or currently has a "That dude". That one guy that made it hard to let go or just won't let you let go. That one guy that does something so right but treats you so wrong, or that one guy that you deal with even when all goes bad. "That Dude" Will always be there waiting to pick back up were Y'all left off.

Now is it fair? To have someone have shackles on your heart and mind so tight that you just can't imagine yourself without them. To a black girl, it's just an ordinary thing. It seems like the cycle goes on and on. Our great grandmothers found the love of there life and were led astray and when they came to there senses, they ended right back up with our great grandfathers and so on and so on. And then here we come.

Can't live with them or without them right? But eventually we either learn how to do either or. It's like a crush. They call it crush for a reason you know. When it doesn't work out, you're crushed. But as it stands this is a black girls love society. Until she learns to either let go or find the initial reason that she's there.

And for some of you guys out there; You know how to play on this simple bit of knowledge . You know how to treat her right and do her wrong at the same time. Knowing that when she leaves, and she will get tired of your mess, she'll go looking for the '"You" in someone else. And when she can't find it, your arms are open ready to play her little heart over again.

Some of us black girls can over come this situation. Or we skip that stage. So maybe not Every black girl goes through it. But it's More accurate to say Most black girls do.

Yet in today's world, it's not always easy. Sometimes you Guys have to be ahead of the game or else the Black girl will have already won the race. In today's Society, we don't go easy. We know the game, because it's been played so much. Sometimes it's hard to tell who's real and who's not. But for a black girl, all we do is build up our walls waiting for someone to break them down. Inside we may love you, and outside we may hate your guts. But We'd never tell you that.

Don't underestimate us. Because fooling with a black girl; Your fooling with your life.