Asexual Problems

#176

"A/cephobia isn't real." 

That right there is phobic. 

Acephobia is as real as your assholery. 

   • We are told that we are too young to know how we identify; 

   • We are forced to live in an overly sexualized society; 

   • We are told that we cannot have a healthy relationship without sex. Because you know, sex is so super duper important. (Not);

   • We literally cannot find someone aesthetically pleasing without being teased or made fun of or told "I thought you were ace;"

   • We get virgin shamed because we haven't had sex or our first kiss yet 

   • And if we aren't virgins, we get slut shamed; 

   • We are told to stop trying to worm our way into the LGBT+/SAGA community because so many people want to believe that A means "Ally;" 

   • Being told that A means "Ally" silences us; 

   • Some of us went through corrective rape because some creeps wanted to "fix us;" 

   • Fox News called us lepers; 

   • Ungrateful pricks will complain about finding out that their spouses/partners are asexual because they were apparently lied to. I understand why you're upset, but do you know how hard your partner tried to make you happy? 

   • We are told we are just confused; 

   • We are called sociopaths and narcissist;

   • And ironically, we get discriminated against because we apparently aren't discriminated against enough. 

Please stahp with this. Thank you.

I just wanted to get that off my chest. The "acephobia isn't real" thing makes me so angry. I don't even understand why it's a thing. We aren't doing anything. We aren't doing anyone.