Daily Gospel and Reflection

A Mother's Request

July 25, 2024

Matthew 20:20-28

20 Then the mother of Zebedee's sons came to Jesus with her sons and, kneeling down, asked a favor of him.

21 "What is it you want?" he asked.

She said, "Grant that one of these two sons of mine may sit at your right and the other at your left in your kingdom."

22 "You don't know what you are asking," Jesus said to them. "Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?"

"We can," they answered.

23 Jesus said to them, "You will indeed drink from my cup, but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared by my Father."

24 When the ten heard about this, they were indignant with the two brothers. 25 Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. 26 Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— 28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

Before, the phrase that always touched me was Jesus's line, "Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant."

But now, as a Mom, I am moved by the mother's request. Like her, I also want the best for my children. If I can do and give everything for my kids, I will do it.

But as I continue reading, I know God is teaching me something. As a Mom, it is my responsibility to teach my children. Everything they have and will have is from God. They should learn to work hard for the things they want, value them, and be grateful to God.

At kapag nag-ooverthink ako kasi madami akong plano para sa mga anak ko, I am comforted with the thought that God wants the best for them too, and His plans are better than my plans, his ways are greater than my ways.

I pray for a heart that is willing to follow Jesus' lead on how to raise my kids. 🙏