Everything that women 'are' and 'are not' - For the women to rediscover themselves | For the men who want to know women more | For everyone irrespective of gender or sexual orientation that wants to know the inside secrets of a 'woman' | A collectio...
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"Why do you wear loose clothes?" They ask with a strict frown Their eyes roaming all over my attire With a masked disgust of its own "Because they're comfortable?" What I prefer to wear as I had grown.
"Fitted dresses will make you look better Why wear this loose bag?" "Just wear a bra all the time Or yours breasts would one day sag" "You could look so endearing but You choose to stay like a old hag."
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Did you ladies ever stop to wonder Where from this tradition came? Fitted dresses that suffocate you They were ways to keep you tame Yes, the figure hugging clothes you like Corsets of the past were all the same.
For years they were made to believe Women's clothes were differently assessed And that they need to show off All the assets that they possessed To be suitable enough to be liked The need to feel good was never stressed.
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"Long dresses or one piece?" they ask "Men's section," I ignore the frilly hem They roll their eyes and move away Leaving me to rummage through the same T shirts that don't constrict your chest Jeans that have real pockets on them
I had always wondered if It's my body type that made me like these I asked the thin ladies one day "In which do you feel ease?" They blushed and replied "Men's clothes" But the others will tease.
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So they end up wearing dresses that Fit their body like a anaconda's grip And wear high heels everyday Enough to make you trip And stay caged in a bra everytime that Mark their skin like bite of a whip.
Because the society will always choose What you'll wear everyday Because you're just a toy they want To play dress up with in any way If a fitted dress makes you uncomfortable "No" is what you learn to say.
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Author's Note : For all those women who feel comfortable in a fitted dress, you're welcome to wear them. I'm not here to judge anyone for your dress choices. (It's medically proven that tight dresses cause circulation problems and increase chances of venous constriction). But just remember if you're not comfortable wearing something you're expected to wear, just say no. The society shouldn't be able to pressurise you or dictate you on what you should wear or you shouldn't!
