When you marry a man, love him. After you marry him, study him.
If he is honest, humor him.
If he is generous, appreciate him.
When he is sad, cheer him.
When he is quarrelsome, ignore him.
If he is slothful, spurn him.
If he is noble, praise him.
If he is confidential, encourage him.
If he is secretive, trust him.
If he is jealous, cure him.
If he favors society, accompany him.
When he deserves it, kiss him
Let him think how well you understand him.
But never let him know that you manage him.
*We love our husband for the sake of Allah Subhanahu WaTa'ala..*
Our beloved sallalahu alaihi wa sallam said:"When a husband and wife look at each other with LOVE,ALLAH will look at them both with mercy" [Bukhari]