Problem
I have another problem. -.-
Lately I have become really close with a boy (just friends) but all my friends really hate him, a lot. They don't know that I have been talking to him and hanging out with him because they hate him and I am afraid how they will react. I have a really tight group of friends, but things are on edge with everyone because lately we found out that one of our best friends had been lying to us. Things are just starting to settle down and I am afraid to bring this up it case it stirs things up. HELP? x
Response
Ok first question, why do they hate him?
Response
They hate him because last year he wasn't a very nice person he was mean to us and really annoying but he has changed
You have no type of relationship with him just of friends (things change yes) I believe that yes while people do change, they'll always have a bit of their past selves' inside of them. No matter how many stages in life people go through, they'll most likely always have a bit from the stage before. It';s kind of like memories. Memories are built on moments in past stages that you later on in life remember or just keep in your mind heart etc. good or bad. People may not notice, but there is almost always a 'what if' in a situation, and it can be more than one 'if'. The 'what if's' here are; losing your friends, losing trust and there are way more if you think about it. I want you to decide. You never know what might happen, but maybe somehow you can show them that he has really changed.
-Random- I'm sitting in my living room right now (well while typing this) and I'm listening to music on my parents' stereo, advantage of dad not being home right now, blast music!!
-Remember always; Date like man so you don't get played like a b*tch Cupids Conquerer <3