What's a household without structure, organization, and order. A lot of households are very chaotic and full of negativity. There's so much going on, on a daily bases things can sometimes get a little crazy. From arguments, the kids, your parents who live right down the street, work, financial issues, and school. The home can become a stressful environment for both partners with or without children.
This is the time to get your home in order as best as possible. It will be challenging, but not impossible. It takes time and patience and most of all team work in gaining back control in your home. Its best to start off by having a planned time to have a date night just the two of you alone. You have to make time to go on dates and get away sometimes. Even though it's tough as adults and we have loads of responsibilities we still need a breaks every now and then.
The household needs to be a positive environment. Home is your comfort place, it should be. Your home environment says a lot and reflects on you greatly. Your home should be your center of calmness and peace. A happy home equals a happy wife. The household is a place of safety and refuge. Let your household inquire this and the positive environment will add to a healthy relationship.