I had someone ask why I don't use the men's room. The fact is I'm afraid. Especially with still having tits. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, but I have had people reassure me that men aren't going to notice. Well my job most of the men that are regulars know. My coworkers do too. But it's like what do I do? I feel like it's a catch 22. I don't want to make any female uncomfortable for continuing to use the woman's restroom. Let alone go into the men's and make someone feel uncomfortable in there. We don't have a universal bathroom and that sucks. I know my DM will be supportive she has already said she was. But it's like how do I handle this? Do I just walk into the men's room like it's nothing? Do I just continue to use the woman's?
No one really understands what the problem is for me. It's a scary thing to do. Seeing all the shit that has been in the news over the years. Do I think anyone would try anything at my work? No, because I have a lot of supportive people there. I know it's going to be time until I have to. I will continue to think things over.