The Self Love Project

By ThatGulabJamunGirl

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This project is to help you grow and know yourself. Join the challenge (more like a project) for 30 days and... More

The Self Love Project
Day 1
Day 2
Takeaways from Book pt.1
Day 3
Day 4
Takeaways from Book pt.2
Day 5
Day 6
Takeaways from Book pt.3
Day 7
Day 8
Takeaways from Book pt.4
Day 9
Day 10
Day 11
Day 12
Takeaways from Book pt.6
Day 13
A Gentle Reminder
Day 14
Takeaways from Book pt.7
Day 15
Day 16
Takeaways from Book pt.8
Day 17
Day 18
Takeaways from Book pt.9
Day 19
Day 20
Takeaways pt.10 (special)
Day 21
Day 22
𝑻𝒉𝒆 π‘³π’‚π’˜ 𝒐𝒇 𝑾𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝑬𝒇𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒕
Day 23
Day 24
COWS DON'T GIVE MILK
Day 25
Day 26
Backlash
Day 27
Day 28
Goodness?
Day 29
Day 30
Emotions And Validation
Author's Note
A New Beginning
BRAIN DUMP EXERCISE
Day 31
Day 32
Recovering
Day 33
Day 34
INSPIRATIONS
Day 35
Day 36
Message pt. 1
Day 37
Day 38
Message pt. 2
Day 39
Day 40
Day 41
Day 42
Day 43
Day 44
Day 45
Day 46
Day 47
Day 48
Day 49
Day 50
Day 51
Day 52
Day 53
Day 54
Day 55
Day 56
Day 57
Day 58
Day 59
Day 60
101 Ideas
Invest In Yourself
Empty Notebooks?
Writing Prompts
Glow Up
Habits In Your 20's
Confidence
Productive Habits
Did You Know This?
Everyone Has a Story in Life
Emergency kit

Takeaways from Book pt.5

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The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

1. Fear is a bigger obstacle than the obstacle itself

"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity."

Any new pursuit requires entering uncharted territory -- that's scary. But with any great risk comes great reward. The experiences you gain in pursuing your dream will make it all worthwhile.

2. What is "true" will always endure

"If what one finds is made of pure matter, it will never spoil. And one can always come back. If what you had found was only a moment of light, like the explosion of a star, you would find nothing on your return."

Truth cannot be veiled by smoke and mirrors -- it will always stand firm. When you're searching for the "right" decision, it will be the one that withstands the tests of time and the weight of scrutiny.

3. Break the monotony

"When each day is the same as the next, it's because people fail to recognize the good things that happen in their lives every day that the sun rises."

Gratitude is the practice of finding the good in each day. Life can easily become stagnant, mundane, and monotonous, but that changes depending on what we choose to see. There's always a silver lining, if you look for it.

4. Embrace the present

"Because I don't live in either my past or my future. I'm interested only in the present. If you can concentrate always on the present, you'll be a happy man."

There's no point dwelling in the past and letting it define you, nor getting lost and anxious about the future. But in the present moment, you're in the field of possibility -- how you engage with the present moment will direct your life.

5. Your success has a ripple-effect

"That's what alchemists do. They show that, when we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better, too."

Growth, change, and evolution are weaved into the fabric of reality. Becoming a better version of yourself creates a ripple effect that benefits everything around you: your lifestyle, your family, your friends, your community.

6. Make the decision

"When someone makes a decision, he is really diving into a strong current that will carry him to places he has never dreamed of when he first made the decision."

It's easy to get overwhelmed by the unknowns and finer details of your dreams. Actions will flow out of having confidence in your decision; sitting on the fence will get you nowhere.

7. Be unrealistic

"I see the world in terms of what I would like to see happen, not what actually does."

Some of the greatest inventions would not have happened if people chose to accept the world as it is. Great achievements and innovations begin with a mindset that ignores the impossible.

8. Keep getting back up

"The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times."

Because the eighth time could be your breakthrough. Some of the greatest novels in history were published after receiving hundreds of rejections. Thankfully, those authors never gave up.

9. Focus on your own journey

"If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own."

It's easy to be influenced by others, but you'll be miserable if you end up living someone else's life. There's nothing wrong with taking advice and learning from others, but make sure it aligns with your desires and passions.

10. Always take action

"There is only one way to learn. It's through action."

You can study, read, and listen until you turn blue in the face, but the full experience is when you take action, and let the rubber meet the road. Once you're done aiming, pull the trigger.

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