after dinner, shang jinghui asked people to take away the table, and then moved back to the chessboard to continue playing chess with he yi.
this time, he not only did not deliberately let he yi go, but also made a very serious decision, but in the end he only made a draw with he yi.
shang jingjian stared at the fierce chessboard for a while, and couldn't help asking, "have you learned to play chess before?"
he yi scratched his head, as if he was struggling with how to express it, and finally he said uncertainly: "i have read the book, i should have learned it, but no one played with me before, i could only go with the computer."
"your mother... i mean your mother in the original world, why didn't you let you out? shang jinghui asked again.
in the past, he yi's intelligence should have been no problem, but his words and deeds were obviously different from normal people, and he was always full of stupidity, which was very contradictory, and shang jinghui did not understand why for a while.
"she was afraid that i would be in danger of going out alone, and said that i was sick, so i should stay at home, but i didn't think i was sick." he yi said with some confusion.
"sick? what disease? shang jinghuan frowned and asked.
"i guess i said it was autism." he yi said uncertainly.
memories of the past have become increasingly blurry, and many things he can't recall very clearly.
with autism, shang jinghui silently recited the word several times in his mind.
as far as he knows, autistic people are indeed not very able to take care of themselves, serious to adulthood have to rely on the care of others to live, and it is difficult to treat, the need for timely and effective intervention in the early stage of the disease, the treatment process is very long, it is likely to be a lifetime, during which it needs to be cared for and accompanied.
if you miss the optimal period of intervention, it will be more difficult to return to normal later.
the genetic factors of the cause of this disease account for a relatively large proportion, the patient's brain structure is not the same as normal people, can not perceive the feelings and emotions of others, and even can not understand the expressions and body language of others, will not have any empathy ability, and is prone to emotional problems, and may even attack the people around them, but they do not realize that there is anything wrong with this aggressive behavior.
so caring for people with autism is a very difficult thing, not only can it be very hard, but it is also very easy to be emotionally hurt.
no matter how much time, money, and effort you put in, you may not end up getting anything in return.
to put it mildly, having a cat, dog or dog for a long time knows how to be close to the owner, but autistic people are likely to never have any emotional response to the person who takes care of them.
shang jinghui thought of this, and compared he yi's initial abnormal behavior with the performance of autism, and found that there were indeed many coincidences.
than how yi yi at the beginning can not accurately grasp the emotions of others, he is angry to want to hit people he yi but did not realize that he is angry, for some of the more euphemistic words he yi can not understand, can only accept the direct expression, and sometimes the emotions are out of control, the row of tooth marks on his hand is he yi's previous emotional loss of control bite out.
however, in recent times, he yi has obviously improved in these aspects, and shang jinghui feels that it is likely that he has changed a healthy body.
the original he yi in this world is very smart, and the little guy is probably lucky to get the light, so the little brain melon is so easy to use.
fortunately, he yi changed his healthy body, otherwise he didn't know if he could accept a wife with autism.
remembering that he yi said that he was starved to death, shang jinghui couldn't help but ask, "your mother... didn't you care later? "
he yi replied while recalling: "she didn't want me, she didn't come back after she went out, i was still very hungry after eating everything in the house, i wanted to go out to find food, but the door was locked, i couldn't open it..."
"didn't you call for help? what about neighbors? did you call the police? shang jinghui asked again.
"i shouted, no one paid attention to me, i was very hungry, i was waiting for my mother to come back, i didn't think to call the police." he yi said, recalling his feelings at that time, he was afraid and aggrieved, and tears suddenly poured out.
shang jinghuan quickly took him into his arms, kissed his forehead gently, and said softly: "don't be afraid, it's all right, there will be me later."
he yi put his head against his shoulder, stretched out his arm and tightly wrapped his arms around his waist, sucked in his nose, and said angrily, "so husband, you can't don't want me, otherwise i will starve to death, and i will be particularly sad."
"didn't i promise you?" i'm not going to want you, i'm going to be with you all the time. shang jinghuan touched his head and coaxed softly.
he yi slowly calmed down under his comfort, rubbed the tears clean with his clothes, lifted his face and said, "husband, i am a little sleepy, let's go to sleep."
"okay, go to sleep." shang jing responded.
he yi said so, after taking a shower and lying on the bed, he was not sleepy at all, stared at the stars for a while, and pestered shang jinghui to tell him stories.
shang jinghui told a story for the first time to coax people to sleep, at first a little strange, talking and talking is much smoother, he yi pillowed his arm, while admiring the starry sky outside the window while listening to the story, enjoy it.
after shang jinghui told the second story, he found that he yi was already asleep, he smiled silently, helped he yi tighten the corners of the quilt, and then dropped a light kiss on he yi's forehead, and then turned off the lights to sleep.
because he yi liked it, shang jinghui simply accompanied him to stay here for one more day, and returned to the old house on the evening of the 3rd.
after the new year's day, immediately after the exam month, he yi was busy reviewing, and when there was no class, he went to the library with his classmates.
shang jinghui was busy with work for two days, and when he was idle, he found that he yi had not run to him like before.
during the day, he couldn't see anyone all day, and he yi had to review until very late at night, and there was no time to stick to him, and shang jinghui was not used to it, so he couldn't help but take time to go to school to find he yi to eat together.
at first, it was just a lunch together, and then shang jinghui excused that the baby needed to rest, and had to pull he yi to take a nap together, and then later, even if he yi had classes at night, he would also use the excuse of delivering food to come and see he yi, and by the way, observe whether the little guy was too close to any classmates.
he is not disbelieving anything, but he is worried that the little guy will be coaxed around by others if he is too simple, or he will be taken advantage of.
he yi's popularity in school is not bad, he looks good, dressed and dressed obviously very different from ordinary students, a little bit of common sense of the students can see that his family is not rich or expensive, so even if he looks a little dull, is not very good at interpersonal communication, there are still many students willing to take the initiative to make friends with him, of which naturally there are many people who have a good feeling for him or have ulterior motives.
on this day, shang jinghui came to deliver food to he yi again, and after the car was parked downstairs in the library, he found that it was a little earlier than the usual agreed time, afraid of delaying he yi's review, he did not call he yi down in advance, but waited in the car for he yi to go downstairs by himself.
it didn't take long for him to see he yi and a few girls laughing and walking out of the library gate, the little guy stood in the doorway and looked around, saw his car and waved at him happily, and then said goodbye to the girls.
one of the girls took the opportunity to rub he yi's hair, and he yi didn't care, and rushed straight to shang jinghui's side.
in order to facilitate he yi's meal, shang jinghui deliberately let the driver drive an extended version of lincoln, and also set up a small dinner table inside.
he yi pulled the car door in familiarly, smelled the aroma of the food and couldn't wait to say: "how fragrant, i am so hungry, can i open the meal?"
shang jinghui handed him a pair of dishes and chopsticks, and asked casually, "was that your classmate just now?"
he yi first stuffed a mouthful of food into his mouth before replying, "well, it's a classmate of the class."
"eat slowly." shang jinghui reminded him, and then asked, "you know each other very well?"
he yi swallowed the fragrant meal and said casually: "well, i usually go to class together, but recently i always met in the library, so i came out together."
shang jinghui snorted without comment, he yi was in a hurry to eat, and he did not find that he was different from usual.
that night, he yi was preparing to go to bed after brushing the question, but he was pulled by shang jinghui to kiss him.
the intensity of his recent review was too high, at this time he was sleepy, and he hummed twice with his eyes closed with some dissatisfaction, wanting to let shang jinghui kiss him quickly and let him go to sleep, and as a result, shang jingjian kissed him endlessly, and did not stop for half a day.
he yi couldn't breathe, and couldn't help but reach out and push shang jinghui's chest, but he was caught by the other party's hands.
shang jinghui continued to do evil in spite of he yi's protests, forcing he yi to blush before letting him go.
he yi couldn't get a chance to breathe, took a big breath, and then looked at shang jinghui with dissatisfaction and complained: "husband, what are you doing, i want to go to bed, tomorrow i have to get up early in the library to study."
"aren't you without classes tomorrow morning?" don't go to the library, the study at home is for you. shang jinghui said.
he yi didn't really want to stay at home, and defended: "but everyone is going to the library to review..."
"that's because they have nowhere else to go but the library, either at home or with me to the company, and you choose one." shang jinghui said somewhat arbitrarily.
he yi frowned and tangled for a while, and finally said: "then i will go to the company with you, you work outside, i write homework inside, and we can eat together at noon."
shang jinghui was satisfied with this, and then he remembered something again, squeezing he yi's left hand and asking, "what about your wedding ring?"
he yi thought about it and said, "it seems to be on the other side of the dresser, husband, didn't you say not to wear it at school?" i put it away. "
"put it on." shang jinghui said without question.
he yi asked doubtfully, "what if i am seen by my classmates?"
"then tell them the truth, that you're married." shang jinghui replied.
he yi didn't understand why shang jinghui suddenly changed his mind, but he obediently responded, and then asked: "what if they ask me who i married?"
this time shang jinghui was finally asked, he really wanted to directly disclose the relationship with he yi, so that those who have ideas about he yi know that his little guy already has a husband, not everyone can worry about it, but then it will definitely bring a lot of inconvenience to he yi's campus life.
he yi waited for a while without seeing shang jinghui answer, and couldn't help but arch in his arms and ask again: "husband?" am i going to tell my classmates that they are married to you?
shang jinghui was jealous and jealous, and his good sense was still online, helplessly saying: "forget it, don't wear it at school, save trouble."
he yi sighed inexplicably, changed into a comfortable position and prepared to sleep, and said goodnight to shang jing before closing his eyes.
when shang jing came up with vinegar, he wanted to toss him before going to bed, but seeing that he was so tired, he couldn't bear to disturb his rest, so he could only eat vinegar for a while.
when shang jing saw he yi rummaging around at the dresser for a long time when he got up the next morning, he couldn't help but ask, "what's the matter?"
he yi shook the wedding ring in his hand and explained, "i want to find a chain to hang it up and wear it around my neck so that others can't see it, husband, do you have a necklace there?"
shang jing was stunned, and the little jealousy in his heart dissipated at once, and he smiled and said, "i'll find it for you."
then he found a wooden box from the bottom drawer that looked some years old, picked out a platinum chain from it, helped he yi put on the wedding ring, and put it on himself.
he yi touched the ring on his chest and said with a smile: "this is ok, thank you husband."