Luelle Magnus
12:58 am
Luelle
Are you there?
Yeah
What's up?
Teka, alas dose na dito ng hapon so it means alas dose na ng madaling araw dyan
Bat hindi ka pa natutulog?
Do you have work today?
Hindi naman ako loaded
Isa pa lunch ko pa
Bakit?
It's just I have a question to ask you
Sige
Ano ba?
Paano mo ba mapapatawad yung taong hindi naman humingi ng kahit isang sorry sayo
Depende naman 'yan sa tao e
May tao kasi madaling magpatawad kahit pa hindi humingi ng sorry ang kabila
May tao rin naman na kahit nag sorry na't lahat lahat pero hindi pa rin magawang patawarin yung kabila
Neither of those fit
You know opinion ko lang 'to
Forgiveness just comes along
In what way?
Minsan kasi naka focus tayo sa tao at hindi dun sa galit na nararamdaman natin pero patagal ng patagal hindi natin alam na pinatawad na pala natin siya diba?
Do you get my point?
Yes
Pero bakit may halong takot pa rin?
It's like love e
It's also about taking risk rin
Kasi kapag pinatawad mo na yung tao we don't know kung gagawin ba niya ulit yun o hindi na
Pero nasa sayo kasi 'yan, if you're ready to take the risk again by forgiving the person then why not diba?
Kahit ilang beses ka pang masaktan ilang beses ka ring matututo
What if that person committed a crime?
Like murder?
But the person is not mentally stable kaya niya na yun nagawa
It actually depends
Some people commit murder for fun, for money, for revenge or sometimes for others
Pero kapag mentally unstable naman pala siya then you know what that means
Hindi niya sinadyang gawin yun, kahit naman siya pag bumalik na siya sa wisyo for sure the person will repent because of what he/she did
But still
Hindi naman yun rason para patawarin lang siya agad diba?
Yes
Forgiveness is not a thing you can do ASAP
It takes time to forgive someone
It needs healing from both sides
Para kung healed na kayo, you can talk it out and you can sort out whatever the grudge is
Alam mo, talking really helps
Kasi hindi ka naman tutulungan nung mga naririnig mo lang
It's better if you talk to the person para alam mo
Whether you forgive the person or not, it's your choice.
It's the risk you took.
Okay
Thank you, Luelle.
That really helped a lot.
You should reflect first bago ka mag desisyon
Para hindi ka masaktan at yung kabila, okay?
Yes.
I will reflect.
And you should sleep
Diba may trabaho ka pa mamaya?
Oo na po
I just can't sleep because of that but now makakatulog na siguro ako
Yeah
Take your rest, Estrelle.
Thank you, Luelle
You're always welcome
