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Loneliness vs Solitude

Loneliness is a negative state, marked by a sense of isolation. One feels that something is missing. It is possible to be with people and still feel lonely-perhaps the most bitter form of loneliness

Solitude, on the other hand, is a taste of being alone without being lonely and can lead to self-awareness.

Solitude suggests peacefulness stemming from a state of inner richness. It is a means of enjoying the quiet and whatever it brings that is satisfying and from which we draw sustenance. It is something we cultivate. Solitude is refreshing; an opportunity to renew ourselves. In other words, it replenishes us.

Loneliness is harsh, punishment, a deficiency state, a state of discontent marked by a sense of estrangement, an awareness of excess aloneness.

Solitude is something you choose.
Loneliness is imposed on you by others.

Hara Estroff Marano, published July 1, 2003 - last reviewed on December 13, 2016