Rants for the World.

Crushes

Crushes...we've all had one right? If you can look me dead in the eyes and say your crush has always liked you back, you are either lying, or one lucky person, cause that is not how it happens all the time. You don't know someone likes you until you're told, or unless it's obvious...and sometimes even when it's obvious, it's hard for YOU to tell. Everyone else around you may see it, but you may not. Now there are all kinda of crushes, but I want to focus on two of them today; Online and in person. Now I have a best friend and I met him online. His name is Billy and we get along really well. I was recently informed that he likes me, but I don't feel the same as he does. I had told him that and he got really upset with me explaining that he loves me and blah blah blah. But moving on, you have to be careful about who you meet online. For all he knows I could actually be a 72 year old male. For all I know, he could be a 6 year old female. I just don't know, and I don't trust him as much as he would like me to.He JUST got out of a relationship and so had I and he started hitting on me. I didn't take too much liking to this and told him to stop and that I didn't feel the same way. You see, online crushes are a little harder than in person crushes. Online crushes you really have to work hard to trust, and MAYBE you'll find a relationship if you trust each other enough.

In person crushes are a little easier because you see them either at school or work and you don't need a devise to communicate with them. You know what they actually look like instead of questioning a profile picture. It's just a little easier knowledge wise.
But in person crushes have their difficulties too. Maybe it's harder to open up to the person you like when you can actually look at them in 3-D. Maybe you have difficulties even looking at the person when they look at you cause you're afraid your face has turned into a very ripe tomato. Or maybe you're one of those people who have no problem walking up to the person you like and saying it to their face when you know for sure you like them and you know why. Either way, it can sometimes be difficult. It's a scary thing to like someone. Sometimes you're so scared you hide every time they come near or you try to avoid communication cause when you're near him/her you can really speak other than saying a few things that sound a little like this; uh ba ha ba huh huh ba. Am I right? We've all had a situation like this before, and if you haven't believe me, you will some day. But maybe it's not as scary as we think, or maybe it shouldn't be scary. If you know the guy/girl really really well and you actually really trust them, than why not go for it. Yeah, you may be rejected but as my friend likes to say..."There's someone for everyone."