Behind your ribs you have built a castle for your heart to live in. If we look across the moat we can see her lurking in the window. Have you not heard of Rapunzel? Do you not know that she will free herself even if it means ripping you apart? You can not make her your prisoner, you can not teach her to behave. You have a fairytale heart and if you lock her door and throw away the key, she will cut you open and wield love like a weapon. She will break you if you make her. Take her hand instead, let her show you how nice she can be.
