Abusing Women

Abusive Men

Where is she supposed to begin to explain the beating? 
You watched her as she sat there bleeding, 
You never cared about her feelings. 
The pain that had no healing. 
Rape after rape she knew she had to escape, never allowed to look up, never allowed to talk. Beat her so she couldn't walk.
She remembers the day she almost died, you laughed, while she cried. 
You played with her like a game. This time she will win , and you, you have committed a sin ; When you burn in hell, which time will only tell, 
god will ask you, "why, why the beating of this woman whom you took to love? Did you forget who was watching from above?"
Remember when She hid under the bed from you, what was she supposed to do, you kicked her in her tummy,
She lost her baby and you thought it was funny. You degraded her and put her in dirt, you loved to see her hurt. 
Now that she has gotten away through her planned escape she have no more tears or any fears but the memory that will last for years. 
God has blessed her and now she's not afraid to face it.
She is brave, brave enough to have a child now, brave enough to have found marriage, and brave enough to believe in love. The day you raise your hand on a woman is the day you are no longer a man. A quote that salutes itself. The moment you decide or even think about hurting a women - Your sister, mother, daughter, cousin, wife- is the moment you are willing to give away and sell your masculinity. Violence can negatively affect women’s physical, mental, sexual and reproductive health, and may increase vulnerability to HIV. Little do men know how much it may ruin their whole life. Abusing women is not acceptable. It's not justifiable. Using physical force to settle a dispute is only acceptable when both parties have decided that's how they want to settle things!  Abusive men can be hard to crack but when interventions sets in they see their girlfriends or wives dead they will be mushy like mashed potatoes. I believe that abusive men have a distorted view of reality. Even if they're given the best toy in the world they will break it. It definitely has nothing to do with women. It’s just a habit and an instinct that keeps on growing stronger within their soul. Nothing is weaker or smaller than a man who hurts women or children whether by his actions or by his words. She is a woman. She is a mother. She is a daughter. She is a wife. She is a sister. She is a human being. She is strong, smart, crafty. She is passionate, courageous, generous. Cooking barefoot is only one of several superpowers. She is action, emotion, devotion. She has hope, beauty, power. She has a brain and she knows how to use it. She gives you life. She gives you respect, love, gratitude. She believes in you. She will nurture you, fight for you - not with you-. She deserves nothing less from you. Power is what men seek and any group that gets it will abuse it. This is a call for every women who got abused by a man - Physically, Mentally, with words or even looks - NEVER be bullied into silence. NEVER allow yourself to be made a victim. The trauma of abuse is never fully gone from a person's consciousness. Its filthy stain leaves its residue on the soul forever. However, like all bad experiences, it is possible to turn this experience into good by developing compassion and empathy for others who have been through this experience. Many people feel that bringing meaning to a traumatic experience is a path to healing. When you turn a negative experience into a tool that brings meaning into your  life and others, you are  taking the best kind of revenge on your abuser.
Accept no one's definition of your life ; define yourself.