Stockholm Syndrome

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WARNING: Talk of abuse, rape, and bad, pieces of shit people.

Okay.

This might get awkward.

But I'm calling you guys out on it, because honestly, this needs to be spoken upon. Like, I'm beginning to think the writers on Wattpad would actually burn if they stepped inside a church, or would at least flinch if holy water was sprinkled on them.

Before I begin, this is not fetish shaming. Trust me. Because out of all of you, I guarantee you that I have the weirdest... kinks. If you go back a few pages, or just know me in general, you're aware I think panties and feminization of men is just... so ineffably sexy that- okay. I'm getting flustered. OKAY. OKAY. WOW> JUST... And the lace... and skirts- Hot damn.

But there is a reoccurring problem on Wattpad, and y'all think I ain't got a sniff of it yet.

Oh sweet summer child.

Sweet, innocent, naive, little summer child o' mine.

Most of us, who agree that men are very agreeable to ogle at it, like to think of sexy things and future fun-times with them. Some of us like to spend our time telling our friends extensive knowledge about men's anatomy. Some of us also horrify our friends by just how extensive that knowledge goes.

I don't know the percentage of submissive women. I have no idea. But Wattpad makes it seem like all of them are just waiting for a man to march into their life, tell them what to do, make them wear their clothes, pay for every single thing they have, and also have sweet sexy times with them.

I have deduced two things. And these findings sorta make me uncomfortable and... awkward, because I dunno, some of you are like my little children and I don't want to think about my little precious lovelies doing bad, bad things with their sexy time partners.

You either want a sugar daddy.

Or, damn. Honey. Somebody need to sign a contract cause you put the S in BDSM.

Or, if you're like mother goose June, you sorta would like both bcus why not.

But, before I go deep into this, I want to discuss the main thing that has brought me here. Today.

The thing with healthy BDSM is it's safe, sane, and always consensual. That means if you're screaming no, they probably won't stop. But if your safe word is like Flap Jacks, and you're screaming Flap Jacks, or even whisper it, or cry it out, they fucking stop. That's the end of the story. There are contracts. It's not vague, and it explores both the sub and dom's boundaries. Sometimes it's just light stuff, and sometimes it's like, "Yo, I wanna stick a electric stick up your dick, that okay as long as I treat you real good afterwards?" and it's okay. Because both of them get off. And both of them like it. And they enjoy it, and it helps them mentally cope sometimes. And happiness.

The main thing though, is it's fucking consensual. It means that whatever the dom is going to do, the sub has full knowledge of, or has the power to make it stop at anytime.

But, the reason why I am bringing this up, is because you guys have rape fantasies and you don't know how to express that on a healthy platform.

You know how many Wattpad werewolf books I have read where men kiss, touch, and have sex with girls without their consent. And as a girl who has been harassed, this makes me... really uncomfortable. You can see how this can translate to force bad memories that may not want to be kicked up in the dirt right?

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