Jihan

How we met?

"Hiii kuyaaa? pinsan? tito? pamangkin? jihan" I greeted him in our party room that time because I used to greet someone who will enter in our room.

Tinawag ko siya sa tatlong magkakaibang tawag sa lalaki na relativesa pamila, sapagkat hindi ko naman alam kung siya ba ay nakatatandang kapatid ko, pinsan ko o tito ko nga ba. Kaya mabuti na lang at sinabi ng nanay-nanayan namin.

We were siblings but in different fam but same nanay-nanayan. Mami zab mentioned me in comment section that we're siblings but he's from BISAYANG PALABAN FAM while mine is LUTANG FAMILY.

And diyan nagsimula ang pagiging magkapatid namin ni kuya ricko but known as jihan, when I heard his voice in our room I was shocked that time because he sounded like 20 years old and up, when our mami zab told me that I don't know what to say or to react but the only word that I said is SORRYYY and MALAY KO BA? I wanna hide myself that time and I remembered that it's just my voice not until KUYA JIHAN mentioned me in our group chat named MAMI ZAB'S BABIES.

He mentioned me there using my real full name, he chatted HI BUNSO @DOMDOM I'll just make it short and for privacy hehe.

I went to their PARTY ROOM which is BP initial of their fam the BISAYANG PALABAN. And the users there is just few and good timing because my another siblings is there. Their names are ARN, ESANG, AND HIM KUYA JIHAN.

When I was there, kuya jihan told his members or ka-fam that they should speak tagalog for me to understand what they're saying and if who are they taling to. For easy and simple approach and kuya jihan and ate arn they introduced me to their ka-fam that I'm their younger sibling I'm a girl. They're so benevolent to me and I feel so welcomed and chill, I chuckled when kuya jihan told to them that if they won't speak tagalog he will rather removed them when they spoke bisaya.

Hindi kasi ako purong bisaya at more on tagalog ako kaya nasabi ni kuya jihan 'yun. Ang bait na kuya AHAHAHAHHAHA

Naka-usap ko rin ang ilang miyembro ng grupo nila at mababait nga naman talaga sila at marunong makinig at makisama.

Nang maiwan kami ni kuya jihan sa party room nila ay nagkausap kami rin kami ng hindi inaasahan. "Bunso, alis lang ako ha, sunduin ko lang pinsan ko." ayan ang pagkakarinig ko nang paalis na si kuya at magmamaneho na ng sasakyan

At nang makarating na nga siya sa lugar kung saan niya susunduin ang pinsan niya ay natuloy kwentuhan usapan namin. "Kuya, alam mo ba may binanatan ako tapos napunta sa explanation" sabi ko atnatawa naman si kuya dahil sa sinabi ko na 'yun dahil maski pala siya ay nasubukan na rin pala niya 'yun "Teka, natatawa parin ako sa sinabi mo bunso" habang sinasabi ni kuya 'yan ay nasa kotse siya at nagmamaneho pala ng mga oras na 'yun.

Habang nagkwe-kwentuhan kami ni kya ay sinabihan siya na "sir, hindi po p'wede mag-park dito. psensya na po" kaya sabi agad ni kuya habang nagmamaneho siya ay sandali daw muna at maghahanap muna siya saan p'wede i-park ang minamaneho niya.

At pakiramdam ko naman ng mga oras na iyon ay hindikami magkapareha ng rellihiyon at alam niyo nama na siguro nasa isip ng author niyo :)

Napunta inabot kami saroom niya ni kuya mismo pero magkalayo ang pwesto. Dahil sa party room ng ka-fam nila ay napagkakamalan kami kaya ganoon na lamang kami ni kuya sa room niya magkahiwalay. Napag-usapan namin na kung nagka-boyfriend na ba at bakit may takot ako sa committment dahil sa nakalipas na karanasan ko ay ayoko muna umibig muli.

May ibanghindi ko p'wede ilagay dito sanapag-usapan sapagkat iyon ay medyo sensitibo at walang permiso kay kuya jihan na ilagay ko iyon.

I dedicated this story to my kuya jihan, I hope you like this po kuya huhu :((

He's the type of a kuya na benevolent, approachable, ideal man and dream man of a lot of girl out there, Iglesia Ni Cristo ang religion, matangkad, ang cute tumawa, and sobrang swerte ng magiging girlfriend. YESS! That's why I'm so lucky and grateful to have him.