Become The Femme Fatale

5. Carry yourself with poise and grace

Treat yourself and the people around you with respect. Practice common courtesy, like asking for someone’s name. Show that you’re dignified and prove that manners matter to you. For instance, thank a hostess for inviting you to a party. Remain composed and put together the entire time you’re out. Everyone will see you as the epitome of a real lady and idolize you.

Show that you're kind to other women. When you express interest in them instead of upstaging or ignoring them, you'll demonstrate the strength of your character. For example, say, "It's nice to see you again, Susan. How is your graduate program going? It sounds fascinating!"

Avoid consuming too much alcohol while you're out—just one drink should be enough if you want to enjoy yourself a bit.