Hi Everyone!!
Thought I would make you all aware of something that has happened in my life that has detached me from all of you lovely folks and has wrapped up most of my attention for the past 8 months.
TW for Domestic Abuse
Hi, for those of you who don’t know my name is Fran, I’m 23 and recently I’ve gotten out of a horrible toxic domestic violence relationship.
The reason I’m even talking about this on here is because I write about relationships in my fan fictions and I have an audience of predominantly young women/girls so I feel like it’s part of my responsibility to get the message across to anyone who will listen.
And for some of you, you won’t.
And that’s okay, because at first I didn’t either.
I want you to know that if you’re having doubts about a relationship you’re having, if they ever make you feel not good about yourself, if you ever have a bad gut feeling, trust it. Please. If it’s the only thing you ever promise yourself then do that, you all deserve true happiness not some moulded version of what you think it is.
There are resources out there for everyone.
In the UK there is the Women’s Centre, that is exclusively for women only and they advise you on steps to take to improve your life and get out of a toxic relationship.
There is Citizen’s Advice, for anything legal related, they’ll give you a guideline of how to do things properly so it doesn’t bite you in the arse later.
There is someone out there that loves each and every one of you, and if you believe you are alone in the world then that just means you haven’t met them yet and you should chug on to meet them.
Don’t deprive yourself of happiness.
If you ever EVER need advice about anything, please reach out to anyone, including myself.
But always call the police if there is an immediate danger.
I love you all, take care.
Fran x
