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real talk, but labels for the lgbtq+ community are so confusing; i started referring to myself as bisexual beginning of 2018, just before my 14th birthday. later this year when i met my boyfriend (at that stage where you are friends but you know you'll be together), i started questioning my sexuality again and instead began referring to myself as biromantic (person who is attracted to two or more genders, but experiences little to no sexual attraction). i was going with it for a few weeks, but now that i am actually dating my boyfriend, i have once again started questioning and came to the realization that i am actually bidemisexual/demibisexual (a bisexual who is only sexually attracted to someone if they have a close bond), but if i came out now i'd feel stupid because i already told my friends and my boyfriend that i am this but i feel like this, so you know what? fuck labels, if people feel comfortable with labels and want to use them, do it, i'm not stopping anyone, this isn't about me forcing my beliefs onto anyone, but there's too much stress around labels for me, so from now on i'm just queer.