My mom just trauma dumped on me and idk how to process that.
My dad was a fairly conservative guy but I didn't know how extreme he truly was. Before I was born, my mom worked in retail but my dad convinced her to leave her job because he didn't like the idea of her working.
Few months later, my mom applied for the position of an air hostess in some Singapore and Dubai Airline and got selected. She was ready to transfer but MY DAD SAID NO. And my mom, being naive and blind in love, agreed. Mind you, my dad wasn't even very financially stable at that time.
I now understand why my mom forces me to study well and not have a boyfriend before I'm earning. She doesn't want me to grow up and become her. She doesn't want me to ruin my life by falling in love the same way she did. My mom regrets not taking that job offer, along with many other offers she got.
I love my dad. I truly do. He's an amazing father, but a terrible, terrible husband.
I'm sorry for ranting but I rllyy needed to express this. I don't want my life to be like my mom's.
