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@ay3169zeynep Eh, I was talking about both of them- waaa, I'm so confused on where this is going, but we both can agree they're both at fault and NEED to apologize to eachother.

@YooHoonKai (I'm only talking about Deruth here btw) and you really try to cover his mistakes by saying he changed. Yes he changed and I'm glad he did but it's a little too late don't you think? Also saying at least he changed doesn't make this any better. It's like the bare minimum for him to become a better father. Always having low expectations might make you happy with little things but it also makes you not realize how much you can actually get. That's why I'm harsh on Deruth. I don't even hate him he's a good father to cale right now but was he a good father before is debatable. That's why I can't simply forget about his mistakes. 

@YooHoonKai lol I never said og cale was not at fault but we were talking about Deruth so I only mentioned his mistakes at parenting. I never babied og cale in my life either. Actually I'm one of those people that try to protect og choi han because everybody hates him for some reason because he beat up cale which is something I think was reasonable. Og cale made some idiotic choices and he also realized that being trash didn't work. But for a 8 year old kid this might look like a good idea. Thats also why I don't fault him for what he did because kids can make bad decisions. We don't know how he would have handled it if the war didn't started. He might even get tired of it and realized he wasted his time and stop acting trash but we will never know. And think of it this way, if someone killed your pet or something but later they realized they were wrong and changed for the better would you still forgive that person for killing your pet? Personally speaking, I wouldn't. I would just not want to see that person for the rest of my life. People think differently about this question, some might say yes I would forgive them but some might not. Thats why you should not force your opinions on other people. I said my reasons of not liking him and you said why you like him this is it. Not everybody has to like one character just because you think differently.