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@Gayasslittleshit okay first of all yes i totally understand!!! crushing on a friend is actually the hardest thing ever and i feel for you. second of all, i def get what you mean. insecurities will always sneak in, everyone has them, and the idea that maybe she'll only go out with you because you asked is totally understandable. third of all, SHE'S CRUSHING ON HER EX. STOP. NO. NOPE. NOOOOOOOOO. BABES IM SORRY BUT SHE'LL NEVER BE OVER HER EX. IM SO SORRY. i've been in that situation, and it's so hard to let the other person go, so she probably will not for a very long time and im so sorry for you. lastly, i don't know her personally, so i don't know what she's like, but honestly if you guys are like GOOD friends, and she one day is all like, "oh no i don't like my ex anymore." and then you ask her out, she won't like stop hanging out with you. if she does, it makes her a bad/fake friend because i would totally understand if you were fucking stalking her or something and not leaving her alone and she stopped hanging out with you, but as long as you respect her boundaries and tell her you understand if she says no, everything will be okay. again. all MAYBES. one because i dont know if she'll ever be over her ex and two cuz i dont know yall personally. sorry im ranting. anyway i hope everything turns out alright and once again if you truly just cant ask her out, you'll find the one someday!! don't worry. i love you babes.