All those people who have bad (or worst) relatives, assemble! I've been dealing with them for a long time and while talking to your mom might help, I know you can't say everything. How about instead of just saying forget it or why should I care (and still thinking about them), we understand their psychology, find a way to avoid them, or better yet, talk about them? (I didn't want to say talk but bit*ch might be a word that gets my story reported)