"Abdullaah ibn Masood narrated, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it helps him to lower his gaze and protect his chastity. And whoever cannot do that, let him fast, for it will be a protection for him."
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INTERCOURSE IN HER BACK PASSAGE. (Anal sex)
It is not permissible for the husband under any circumstances whatsoever to have intercourse with his wife in her back passage. The Prophet (pbuh) said: He is cursed who has intercourse with women in their back passages. This is because it [anal intercourse] goes against the fitrah [natural inclinations of man]. And the back passage is a place of filth and dirt and there are other reasons which confirm the fact that this deed is haraam.
Allah says: Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will (al-Baqarah 2:223).
ORAL SEX
it involves using the mouth, tongue to stimulate, to touch the bottom private part (front or back) of the partner. it is not mentioned haram.
NEVERTHELESS, it is mostly considered filthy and disgusting and it is the easiest way to transmit diseases, why would a fool like to touch the parts from which dirt or toxic liquid or anything is released from the body. ABSOLutely a way of risking health! and that why is unsafe is not allowed in Islam! Islam refrains from self-inflicting harm.
FORCING ONE TO BED.
If the husband used violence to force his wife to sleep with him, he is legally a sinner and she has the right to go to court and file a complaint against him to get punished. The woman also has the right to refuse to engage in sexual relationship with her husband if he has a contagious disease or use violence which hurts her body during the sexual intercourse.
Ssexual intercourse between man and wife should be conducted with intimacy and love and made such amicable conduct as a sign of piety. Allah says;"Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and make an introduction for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. And give good tidings to the believers. (2:223)
DURING MONTHLY RECYCLE.
It is forbidden to have intercourse with a woman when she is having her period. Allah gave the woman the right to refrain from her husband as Allah says,
"And they ask you about menstruation. Say, 'It is harm(a harmful for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife when she is menstruating)', so keep away from wives during menstruation. And do not approach them until they are pure. And when they have purified themselves, then come to them from where Allah has ordained for you. Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify(by taking a bath and cleaning and washing thoroughly their private parts, bodies, for their prayers, etc.) themselves." (2:222)
But, it is still permissible for the husband to enjoy his menstruating wife without having intercourse.
WITH A DISBELIEVER.
It is not permissible for a Muslim to marry a woman of any other religion apart from the people of the Book, namely Jews and Christians and those whom the scholars included under the same heading. As for a woman who does not follow any religion at all, not even in name only or on official papers, it is not permissible to marry her.
"And do not marry Al-Mushrikat (idolatresses, etc.) till they believe (worship Allah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress, etc.), even though she pleases you. ......." (2:221)
WITH A NON MEHRAM.
Zina is a major sin and one of the worst crimes. Allah says; "And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him)"(al-Isra' 17:32)
Punishment of an unmarried zaani;
"The fornicatress and the fornicator, flog each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not pity withhold you in their case, in a punishment prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a party of the believers witness their punishment" (al-Noor 24:2)
As for one who has previously been married;
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), who said: "For a previously married person with a previously married person, one hundred lashes and stoning."
It makes no difference whether zina is committed with a Muslim woman or a non-Muslim. As for the punishment for zina in this world. The torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein in disgrace" (al-Furqaan 25:68-69)
Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Most Merciful. So sincerely repent.
Even marriages would fail, unsuccessful, if it has been spoiled by zina. And Allah knows the best.
WITH USE OF CONDOM.
Although that is permitted, it is nevertheless makrooh and intensely disliked. Prophet (pbuh) was asked about coitus interruptus and he said: "That is the secret burying alive of infants." This indicates that it is strongly disliked.
But it is better not to do any of that, for several reasons, including the fact that it deprives the woman of pleasure or reduces the pleasure for her. It cancels out one of the purposes of marriage, which is to increase the number of offspring. It is permissible for him to use condoms if his wife gives her permission.
DURING FAST HOURS
Intercourse during the day in Ramadaan is haram for men and women alike, who are obliged to fast during the day. Doing that is a sin for which expiation (kafaarah) must be offered. The kafaarah is to free a slave; if that is not possible then the person must fast for two consecutive months; whoever is not able to do that must feed sixty poor persons.
Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): "It is made lawful for you to have sexual relations with your wives on the night of As-Sawm (the fasts). They are Libaas [i.e. body-cover, or screen, or Sakan (i.e. you enjoy the pleasure of living with them] for you and you are the same for them. Allah knows that you used to deceive yourselves, so He turned to you (accepted your repentance) and forgave you. So now have sexual relations with them and seek that which Allah has ordained for you (offspring), and eat and drink until the white thread (light) of dawn appears to you distinct from the black thread (darkness of night), then complete your Sawm (fast) till the nightfall". (al-Baqarah 2:187)
best keys to prevent yourself from engaging in filth.
>lower your gaze! Don't look!
>recite astagfhar! Repent!
>remind yourself, Allah is watching!
>connect with your Salah; learn about haya in Islam
>try not to look at people whom are inappropriately clothed.
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