Barry Benson is GAY AS FUCK and wanted nothing more than to slurp on Brendon Urie's white honey. Brendon was the one to help Barry realize that the bee life wasn't for him, but the dick life was. Barry knew from the beginning that he was a raging homosexual who had a big stinger, if you know what I mean ;).
Barry was saving himself for one special person. He was saving himself for his true love, Brendon. Everyone pretty much knows, once a bee stings they die. Barry might have been an emo cunt, but he didn't want to die. Sure, he might have been bullied for loving dick, and the fact that he didn't have any friends, but Barry was a bad ass bitch who didn't give a fucccc.