I just came up with this but don't you think that this is what is really happening.
Family
Zen warning people to not touch her or they'll die.
Obi saying that he won't promise any thing.
Prince Raj saying he wants her and is more better than Zen (not).
Him trying to win her over with his passion.
Him almost winning.
They both get closer to each other.
"Your all idiots cause she's mine."