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》Self-harm involves a person damaging their body by cutting, burning, scratching or practicing any other behavior that results in pain or injury
》People who self-harm have turned to hurting themselves as their coping mechanism to manage their emotions.
》People might self-harm to:
Process their negative feelings
Distract themselves from their negative feelings
Feel something physical, particularly if they are feeling numb
Develop a sense of control over their lives
Punish themselves for things they think they've done wrong
Express emotions that they are otherwise embarrassed to show
》About 17% of all people will self-harm during their lifetime
》The average age of the first incident of self-harm is 13
》45% of people use cutting as their method of self-injury
》About 50% of people seek help for their self-harm but only from friends instead of professionals
》Self-harm can be seriously dangerous—physically, emotionally, socially, all aspects of life
》Physical Effects of Self-Harm
Permanent scars
Uncontrolled bleeding
Infection
》Emotional Effects of Self-Harm
Guilt or shame
A diminished sense of self, including feeling helpless or worthless
Addiction to the behavior
》Social Effects of Self-Harm
Avoiding friends and loved ones
Becoming ostracized from loved ones who may not understand
Interpersonal difficulty from lying to others about injuries
》Aside from very young children, adults are the least likely group of people to follow through with self-injury. Only about 5% of adults have self-injured in their adulthood
》Studies find that about 15% of college students report engaging in self-harm.
》Adolescents have the highest rate of self-injurious behaviors, with about 17% admitting to self-injury at least once in their life.
》While women are more likely to self-harm,
males may represent at least 35% of total self-injury cases.
》Men are more likely to underreport self-injury and have other people hurt them than women.
》Gay and bisexual people are at a high risk of self-injury. Nearly half of all bisexual females engage in self-injury.
》the average age of onset for self-injury is 13. This age seems to align with new stressors and expectations at school and home as the child enters their teenage years.
》This time is also linked to the emergence of mental health conditions like anxiety and depression, which may further trigger a desire to self-harm.
》Variety of biological and environmental issues known to cause self-harm:
Having friends or family members who self-injure
Experiencing stressful life situations like traumatic events, family instability and sexual identity uncertainty
Living in social isolation
Mental health conditions, like depression, anxiety and personality disorders
Drug and alcohol use or addiction
The more of these factors a person has, the higher their risk of self-harm.
》Nonsuicidal self-injury involves symptoms like:
Engaging in self-harm on five or more days over the last year
Self-injuring to find relief from an unwanted feeling, solve a relationship conflict or create a desired feeling
Self-harm involves unwanted feeling like depression, anxiety or anger, an intense focus on completing the behavior and frequent thoughts of self-injury
》Self-harm often co-occurs with mental health disorders. Historically, self-harm was thought to be directly connected to borderline personality disorder.
》Self-harm can also be connected to :
Eating disorders
Substance use disorders
Depression
Anxiety
》One study found that of people who self-injure:
20% have personality disorders
13.5% have adjustment disorders
11% have mood disorders, like depression or bipolar disorder
》Addition research shows that about 55% of people who self-harm have eating disorders.
》People who engaged in 20 or more self-harm behaviors are about 3.5 times more likely to attempt suicide compared to those who have fewer self-injury actions.
》If you or someone you know is struggling with self-harm please seek professional help or support from trusted loved ones, or contact the suicide or self harm hotline number for your area (all found online)
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As someone who's struggled with self harm I just want you to know I understand, I empathize, and I'm here for you.
I'm evidence that you can do it. I'm over 2 years clean.
You're so strong, so brave, capable, valuable, and there is absolutely no one like you.
Please if you ever think of cutting think to yourself, would I do this to (Enter comfort person here such as fictional character / your younger self / celebrity / youtuber / friend / even me if you have to)
I love you. You can do this.