Lesson 1- Acceptance

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My entire life I've always wanted to grow up,be independent,take my own decisions and most importantly,step into my teenage. I did step into my teenage not even realising what shit I was about to go through.
Well,as a kid you keep great expectations,don't you?
And when we don't meet those, we're shattered.
This is when acceptance is important. Accepting change, situations and people is the key to survive your early teenage.
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Accepting change-
this should be done when not only people,but everything changes. Everything related to the person who has changed,changes. This is the most difficult change one can ever come across. But most importantly,learn to adapt and overcome changes. That's how you grow.
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Accepting situations-
Imagine one day your best friend breaks up with you,the only person whom you ever trusted and believed would never leave you. How would you react? Obviously you would be devastated and flustered but will you be able to accept it and get over it in a short time. No. You won't cause it's difficult. This is when you need to grow up and accept this kinda change. It's difficult but never impossible. Remember these situations take place almost everyday. But you need to *accept* and move on.
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Accepting people-
This is probably something you battle with. There are many people out there with whom you don't agree. You hate them for being something you don't like. It's natural. Basically,it's human nature. It happens. But,even this is what you need to accept. People. Without them,you're nothing. Absolutely nothing. Different kind of people teach you different kind of things and the most important is to agree with them,even if you don't want to. This way you'll hurt less people and enjoy life to the fullest.

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