Cold hard truth

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Thankful for :-
A short illness
Opioids and anti-agitation
Brothers and sister
Better halves

In-laws and outlaws
Every shade of nurse
Did you know that they are angels?

The profiling bed
The syringe driver
You fought to the end
Us

Care for me at home
The patient that wasn't
I think we did ok
My father,my child

Neighbours from Heaven sent
With gifts of kindness
Loaves of bread
Food and respite
Friendly faces

Veronica, way beyond
Be sure he noticed

Local Health Centre so fast so helpful
Hartes's Chemist indeed the same
Credit Union of Termonmaguirc
Undertakers & Funeral Services
Jimmy and Ryan, so much more
Marquee with furnace to house the many

Tea and sandwich-makers
Family, friends & neighbours & children

Hundreds of each our friends and strangers
Colleagues, distant & closer relatives; Some
Aged by decades since last seen
Face recognition overload,
Who are you? Which one are you?
Are you one of them?
Are you a Flanagan?
Do you remember me?
I'm your fathers cousin
I'm your mother's friend

I know Eamon, James, Clare, Brendan or Brian
I knew your Dad from this and that
I knew your mother, Peg
I know your mother, Alo

Final farewell
Sorrowful mysteries
House private
Human family only

Now call the grandchildren
Some in their eighties
Then the wife and children

But I don't say what I can't mean
This is nothing
No farewell

Coffin bearers
To the gate
McGarrity lads to their shift in wait
Flanagan and McGarrity children
From our town land to bear
Witness to your passing

Final slow march like
That day in '73
Cold December morning 1st, a Monday

Traffic standstill
Credit Union staff, more friends and family
Pause the march
All in Dad's plan

The guards of honour from the Dean Brian McGuirk lead by Gavin
And the Holy Cross, Strabane
The friends, more friends from each, our lives

The balancing act by Father Sean
A eulogy that skirts around your life
For fear of saying of your many good deeds
Lest anyone is sad
Modesty in the extreme
Tactfully respected

Prayers and readings
Never easy
Proud of you all

Communion of Carrickmore
Final carry
To place of rest
No eye contact
Always best

We lowered in, your casket
In which was not you
Just discarded clothing
By a soul in passing

No tears
Just thanks
For prayers answered
At every stage
Except for the obvious
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No regrets
You lived your life
Well maybe one
For Brian tried
But could not get it through
They denied Christ
They told you thrice
You're eighty five

Hard not to wonder
How the doctors missed
Cancer
But they got one thing right
You're eighty five
I'd like to say I'm so impressed

But I'd be lying
As now your shell
And the mortal man
I knew so well
Carried off; To
Fond farewell
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Symbiotic; came wind-swept, driving rain
No time fussing, on you go
The Charm Inn to the rescue
I felt you there

I feel you close
Can you, me?

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