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Divorce

Hi guys, Welcome to my new book! I've written very little for each scenario so feel free to message me if you need any help or if you want to ask me a question or if you just need someone to talk to!

Remember: there will ALWAYS be someone out there who cares about and loves you!

Xx💖💖

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Scenario 1:
Finding out that parents are divorcing

Scenario 2:
Parents have been divorced for a while and you don't know what to do

Scenario 3:
You are getting a divorce

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Scenario 1
Finding out that your parents are divorcing can be hard. You may be shocked, scared, disappointed, sad or all of the above and more. Your feelings are mixed and you don't know how to control them or what to think about this news.

Firstly, I'd just like to remind you that you're parents love you. They love you with every inch of their soul and heart and they would never do anything to hurt you. Know that if they are getting a divorce, it's not because of you.

It may be because that 'spark' just isn't there anymore. Or maybe because one parent is being abusive to the other. But for whatever reason it is, they will always want what's best for you.

Right now, all I suggest for you to do is to show your parents that you are there for them. Show them that you will love them no mater what happens. It may be hard and you may get extremely mad, but know that this is happening because of a reason.

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Scenario 2
Have your parents been divorced for a while? Is it still haunting you?
Don't worry! I know it's tough that your parents are divorced and you're still getting used to spending time with each of them for a specific amount of days.

You just need to be strong, keep your head up and don't let anything ruin your happiness. Especially this situation.

Remember, your parents love you. You may not feel it now, but understand that they're stressed and probably don't know what to do. Be there for them. Know that you're there to talk to them.

The same applies to you. I highly suggest going to a psychologist or trusted adult to talk about this situation. Trust me, psychologists know how to help you. I was really scared to go to a psychologist, but when I mustered up the courage to go, I felt so much more better afterwards.

Keep your head up and don't let your emotions get the best of you!

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Scenario 3
Getting a divorce with someone whom you thought you would love and cherish is extremely heartbreaking.

You're probably thinking about all the happy times with your SO and you're probably wishing that you could go back to that. Wishing that you could go back to the time where you two still had that 'spark.'

But you don't anymore and that's why you decided to get a divorce.

First off,
You need to understand your emotions. Look after yourself. Go for a walking or something to clear your head and decided if getting a divorce is what you really want. If you start feeling doubtful, talk things out with your SO.

Secondly,
If you do decided to get a divorce, know that your children (if you have any) will probably be scared, angry or confused. Try to comfort them. Explain to them why you're getting a divorce and help them realise that it isn't their fault.

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Just do what's best for you and know that you can always message me on Wattpad and ask me anything or talk to me about anything. I will always be here whenever you need!

Xx💖💖