"The Woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet" ~Mohadesa Najumi
Recap of last chapter:
7. Realize that beauty cannot be defined.
Now on with this chapter:
A little disclaimer on behalf of myself. This chapter will not be my best, but it will be somewhat worth the read. Understand that I am a high school sophomore (As of April 2017) and am still learning this myself. Once you know this please, take caution, but continue.
It takes a lot of practice to understand and know that: you are worth more than all the diamonds in the sea; your smile lights up the world more than the sun; your happiness is more important than money; your love is enough to get by. You are more precious than all the planets in space and this is something you should know and everybody you meet. Once you acquire someone who does not understand this than you need to move on, leave or vanish from their lives.
To know how much you are worth, you need to have self-awareness and confidence. You do not earn value by bringing other people down. Their value does not transfer to you and your value does not lessen. This is not something that can just be transferred like money at a bank. You can lift your value simply by being yourself.
~Nobody opinions matter about you but your own. In order for them to insult you successfully, you would have to value their opinion and trust me when I say you don't need to.
~You are strong and independent woman, who doesn't need a significant other. You are clothed in strength and dignity.
~ Forgive people for their mistakes, but do not dare to forget it. And vice versa. Meaning be careful with your words. They can be forgiven but nothing will make them be forgotten.
Knowing your worth is putting all of these together. You are a strong, independent woman who values her own opinion and knows how to forgive people or her own actions without forgetting what they've done or what mistake she has made. Knowing that you are a Queen and deserved to be seen and treated like one. You do not need someone to help rule over your life, you have that in the bag.
Knowing your worth is knowing that people are dicks, whether they have one or not. Knowing your value doesn't change whether you made a mistake or not. It does not change whether you know how beautiful you are or haven't seen it yet. Never changes when you lose sight of who you are. You may often forget how irreplaceable and valuable you are but that's why I'm here.
To remind you in song lyrics. "You are beautiful in each and every way. Words can't bring you down." Christina Aguilera. "Baby, you light my world like nobody else" One Direction. "Beautiful girl all over the world, I would be chasing but girl you're amazing. Just the way you are" Bruno Mars
Know yourself. Know you mean the world to a complete stranger but don't let that stop you from valuing yourself like you would value chocolate... A whole lot.
Y: Your smile can brighten anybody's day
O: Own your mistakes, admit your own before you can point out someone else's
U: Ugly should not be in your vocabulary. EVER.
W: Woman: Clever as the devil and twice the pettiness. Perfect combination
O: Over the bullsh!t. So are you, so don't let it pollute your mouth.
R: Relationships should not be your main priority. If it is, seek something better.
T: Tell it like it is, excuses are made to hide something.
H: Hilarious. You are funny and your sense of humor is on point.
I: Intellectual. Don't you dare hide it.
T: The Real MVP, and don't forget that's your spot.
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