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Blog 29# Matchmaker make me a perfect match

I'm hoping you lot have paper and pen on standby because you may need to take some notes from this

3) Sensitive

Now yes it is okay to find someone who is tough, has a bit of thick skin but at the same time you want to look for someone who has at least a fair amount of sensitivity around them. This is important because it will make them empathetic, emotional and make it easier to get attached. Now boys I know "oh being sensitive is for the weak", I'm sensitive and I am tough, DOES THIS MAKE ME WEAK!?!? If anything women find men who are sensitive sexy and it is vice versa, yes it is hard because we don't want to show our sensitive side to fast in a relationship but please try at least. Give us some sort of sign that you are a sensitive.

4) Someone you can be yourself around

Comfortability is key to a sturdy relationship and often a lasting one, you want to feel comfortable rather than awkward around them, you want to show them that you feel safe and you are happy when you guys are together. Yes at the start it is a quite slow process when it comes to getting comfortable in the relationship but that is okay. Patience is key and with patience will come comfortability.

5) thoughtful

Now this should not be a surprise, guys and girls alike in any relationship, doing little things that are considered thoughtful are the best kind. You don't need to impress them with fancy gifts or great big gestures. You don't need to impress everyone, small things like holding the door open and pulling their seat out for them on a dinner date, cooking them their favourite breakfast unexpectedly. Planning cute small dates or spontaneously giving them flowers just because. That is as thoughtful as you can get it and quite often it makes the other feel loved and appreciated when they go out of their way for you. It is time for you to acknowledge the efforts of your partner.

6) supportive

I cannot tell you how important this is in a relationship, you need to feel that you are being supported by your partner when you decide to go ahead with something, say you want to change courses, your partner should support your decision 100%, yes there will be times where some choices are ones that they may not agree on, they should be able to support and understand your reasons and what you want to do. A girl or guy who supports your dreams, ambitions and goals and wants you to feel supported is one of the best feelings in the world.

7) smart (in their own way)

Everyone is different, while you might have graduated high school, they might have dropped out and began to work as an apprentice of their chosen trade, while they might be working on a masters in University, you might be in a community college studying your chosen course. Everyone is smart in their own way, he might be better at math than you are or she might be stronger in fine motor skills such as drawing and writing, there are no two geniuses alike (and if there is, that is impressive). You both have strengths and weaknesses and quite often you'll find the opposite in each other to help you along. He might be able to help you in math as you study to be an accountant, or she might teach you how to cook so you can join home ec class. Everyone is unique when they are different and usually it is quite sexy to see someone smart in his or her own form

8) Loving

I think this is pretty obvious, you need to show your partner that your relationship with them is something worth fighting for, something that they treasure often enough. They want to be by your side as long as fate allows you two and there is nothing sweeter than to have a partner who is attentive, accepting and proud to say that you are the ones who occupy their hearts

9) No dictation / control

Cannot stand this at all, cannot stand partners who are dictating or controlling, they will bring you down and they will tell you how it will be their way or the highway...what do you do when this happens...take the highway. You should never allow someone to control or dictate you and it is never okay, it can be seen as a form of abuse because they are controlling you enough to the point where they can then use you as an excuse to leaving you for another person. Anyone possessive should be avoided, you can get hurt emotionally, mentally and can really cause trust issues in any further relationships