You broke up because something was wrong. Never forget that. And if you think it is going to different this time, think again.
Your hopes and dreams come into getting your ex back. They spur you on to making it work. However, to make it work, a dose of realism is also what you need.
There are also some other things that you are going to need.
You will need patience, because it is no good going into this like a bull in a China shop if you want this to work and to last.
You are going to need honesty in order to work out why you or your ex were unhappy. Why didn't it work?
Write it down here.
WHY MY RELATIONSHIP DIDN'T WORK
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Now, are you prepared to apologise to your ex? No? Or, if you really want to stand your ground and think that you are right, are you prepared to really put the work in, but patiently, trying to persuade your ex of your point of view? If you are not, quit now. There is no point in just getting back with your ex in order to have your heart broken soon again. Who would want that? Believe me, you will be more satisfied it you put in the hard work, and take this carefully and patiently.
