"What if..."

Ladies, ladies ,ladies, we all fear of the word "what if". Why? We fear "what if" because we think that it's the end of the relationship or end of the world. I must admit us women can do some crazy stuff to drive our man crazy. The reason we do that is because we love them dearly and some men can't
seem to look at it that way. They always look at it "why they doing this dumb crap or why they doing this and that. Some can't seem to understand. I wish they all can understand. Some women is lucky to have a good damn intelligent man by their side to care for them, to love and cherish them. I know us women don't want our man to go anywhere cause your afraid that he may stumble across another women(who looks beyond beautiful, just looking for a booty call or break up a happy home) or maybe an old friend/girlfriend and she slides her number to him even though he said he was taken or married. And you steady thinking "what if..." Even if y'all get into an big argument and he leaves the house.... You steady thinking "what if " What if he's doing something that he have no business doing, what if he finds someone better, what if he don't love me anymore... "What if..." Ladies dry your tears and quit assuming. That's going to make matters worse. The best possible thing is to have a deep long conversation with your man and tell him how you truly feel, let it all out. Don't let him interrupt you. You tell him "don't interrupt me and you trying to say something , that's not going to work, you wait and let me finish". He need to be respectful to you as you speak. Let everything out, don't hold something that's little back, cause if you do then that little something will begin to grow bigger and bigger and once it reach its max, you're ready to explode. And you don't want that cause you would be crying and regretting. So when you talk to your man be honest, answers his question to the best of your ability. That's all. And to know that if your man cherish you and love you unconditionally then you have a winner. Is he shows you that he love's you like he say he do, and he is not going nowhere. But ladies we have to do our part and return the favor and that is to show them love. Stop worrying about the "what if " trust me you would have to worry about if your man cheating on you, cause he know what he have, he know that he have good women who he knows got his back. Come on ladies don't get weak, gets strong.