I am the habit "put first things first". I am the habit which decides the will and won't things to do. Most kids and also teens can't really decide what to do in their first priorities and what things to ignore in that very moment. For example most students nowadays prefer video gaming our their studies and physical games although video gaming is very adverse effects on human body and mind.
I once met a student of class 7 whose name was Ryan. This kid Ryan could not decide what to do in his first preference and due to this he faced failures on every cross road of life. Then I entered his life I thought like others kids it will be very easy to persuade him and make his will and won't powers strong. But he really gave me a hard time. At first he agreed with me but latter I noticed that he decides to do some important things first but doesn't really act upon his decision. I noticed his won't power was really weak. Like In the morning he divided to go for playing outdoors after school but when he came after school he went for his X-Box rather than playing outside with his friends.
I was really worried about him because his X-Box is not going to help him in future but his education. And by education I mean everything which he learns rather it is learning by playing or just by some library books. Then I suggested him to write a time table and at the end of each day mark the things that he had done accordingly with the time table and read what all things he was supposed to do in the day but he didn't. Within days this made him realise that his life was so unscheduled and going into waste.
Other than that I made him realise that it's ok to say "No!" To some of the things. For example I told him that if you are going to library and a friend of yours is asking you to hang out with him say ,"No" rather than just accepting his offer in fear of you may lose your friendship. This decision of yours then will make you help in the future. Later Ryan grew up applying these rules in his daily life. He also succeeded latter in his life like he succeeded in his high school and latter in his college life. In the end, I hope I also may change your life if you are spending a life without the will and won't power. 👍🏻👌🏻
