what annoys me more then anything is when a guy cannot take a hint.
when a girl tells you she doesn't want to give you her number, or if she's not interested that means leave her alone.
whatever the case is let her be.
if she does everything in her power to avoid you from bothering her it means she doesn't like you.
sorry to break it to you but its irritating when you think you're flirting with us but in reality you're just annoying and pestering.
now there is this kid who just came from Georgia to Florida a week or two ago and he will not leave me alone.
lets call him, john.
john is very pestering.
for some ungodly reason he has the mindset of a middle school kid. the first day he came he was annoying, calling me out and telling all my class mates about how he "liked me so much".
what aggravates me the most is how can you be that shallow and like someone for just their looks?
before this kid even met me and knew what I was like, he automatically assumed that we were going to date in the first week time span of him being here.
haha no.
unfortunately,
john came a week or two before my birthday.
and me being my stupid self, I announced to a couple of friends in that class that my birthday was in a week or so.
two days before my birthday john comes over to my lab table and starts pestering the hell out of me.
he starts asking me what I want for my birthday. of course I tell him nothing because I want nothing to do with this kid and I especially do not want him spending money on me like im going start dating him as if im a gold digger.
not happening.
so the rest of the period I spent hearing john telling me he's going to buy me all these things after I said I don't want them.
thank god he never got me anything for my birthday.
but wait there's a catch.
he has decided to instead get me all these things for valentines day.
im cringing so much right now.
I told him like before: " I don't want it".
but of course his pestering, annoying and way to big ego blocked out my voice.
valentines day is on a Sunday so why is he even trying to bother me so much.
im not the type of girl to be with someone for their money or looks.
I want to be with someone for a good heart, right mind, and respectful to my opinions and choices.
the lesson to this story is that not every girl wants to put their number in your phone, or "hang out at your place".
if you know you're making her uncomfortable, annoyed, and/or she's avoiding giving her personal information to you, leave her be.
that's all, -A.
