Chances are,if you we're in flirtatious type before your wedding, you'll go really anything wrong(for me). Flirting with woman doesn't necessary mean you want to sleep with them. It just mean you want them like you, to be interested in what you have to say, to laugh at your jokes.
Eliciting this positive reaction from members of the opposite sex bolster the male ego. Unfortunately, most if the time, it has a different effect on your wife. That's understandable. Out of all complete jerks out here(think of some of your friend she managed to find a partner she can be with for the rest of her life. Now he's across the room ogling some stick-thin model wanna be with EEE implants. Your wife first thought is "My Husband think's she's more attractive than I am." Her second is "I have to get him away from her," which is followed quickly by "I'm going to kill him."
But it never has to get that point. You can keep jealousy from rearing its ugly head in any situation by doing one simple thing: Flirting with your wife. When you go to a party together, treat your wife the most important person in the room that doesn't mean you can't leave her side; go ahead, split up. Mingle. But every fifteen minutes or so, make an effort to see how she's doing. Put your arm around her, touch her hair support the stories she tells. Then, after you've given here ego a lift, go off and boost your own with Twiggy.
When you're talking to a woman and your wife approaches you, show that you're happy to see her. Put your arm around your spouse. Introduce her to the woman, and shift the conversation to something you can all discuss intelligently, that way you let your wife know that, although you like to talk to other woman, she's the one you'll be with forever. Convey this message when you go out, and you won't find yourself fighting on the long drive home.
As for flirting when your wife's not around, go for it. Just remember, you're married and there's no reason yo hide it. You're allowed to look nice when you go out with the guys, but only a total Neanderthal would take off his wedding ring. i don't care if you do have a rash in the finger, and if you don't want to end up in the dog house--or even worse, divorce court--keep this mind: You can talk, you can laugh, you can look, but never ever touch.
And what if you wife's a flirt? Well, that's probably now she got you in the first place. Still, when she giggles moronically at every word her muscle-laden person trainer ulsters, you probably feel like a swift kick in the glutes would do him some good.
Forget it. Go over and introduce yourself, or just take a deep breath and ignore in. Sure, you work hard to pay attention to her in social situations, and its fair to expect the some in return, but if she'd rather talk to Buff-Biff than you at the moment, give her some slack. You know it doesn't mean anything when you talk to some other beautiful woman, show the same confidence in your wife's devotion to you.
Over time, if her flirting because a genuine problem, don't embarrass her by making a sense in public. Wait until you get home talk about it. Working together, you can set some ground rules for flirting that you, your wife, Twiggy and Biff can all live with..
=Surviving your first year of marriage=
-PapaKris.,
