Asalam Alaikum pplz
Let's discuss briefly about comparison
Firstly you have to know the definition of comparison it means "a consideration and estimate of similarities and dissimilarities between two things or people ”
In our society, we often view it as a motivating force. It is not a source of motivation but it could be a source of destroying personalities and characters. When we compare our children with others, it becomes the face of mental torture for them.
For instance, if a child loses marks in an exam, you have to talk with them not to consider them as failures or aliasing them as losers. At such moments, comparison can become the reason for disappointment.
Every person has their mind, thoughts and ideas. They are beautiful as they are. Even with their imperfection, they don't need to be like somebody else. They don't need to be inspired by someone. The only thing they need is to be someone who will be admired by someone, so don't take it as motivation because IT IS NOT a KIND OF MOTIVATION BUT DESTRUCTION OF PERSONALITIES.
It will develop negative feelings of jealousy, insecurity and inferiority in them. They will doubt their self-worth and a long-term process of healing will be required.
"Stop comparing your child with others let them be whom they are before they be an ulcer for you "
Sorry if you got hurt by my words.
جزاک اللّه خیرا کثیرا❤
