JusticeForJest
Another idea you don’t necessarily have to add but I’m asking for advice about:
Friends.
I’ve never moved so where I currently live is the same place all my old friends over the years live and it’s kinda hard to ignore the facts like ‘hey that girl you were talking to about that book is the same girl you dragged into your littlest pet shop phase in 2nd grade.’ (Still deeply hate myself for that)
That being said; how do I subtly unfriend or distance myself from the people that know me. I don’t want it to be to the point where all the tables in lunch are filled up and I have no friends to join so I sit on the bench being self conscious about the way I look when I eat but I don’t want it to be to the point where I’m sitting with friends and letting the brighter side of personality show and revealing my vulnerabilities and stuff.
AlexisTheThugPugStar
@JusticeForJest You will regret it later on in life. Keep your friends, keep your personality. Nothing at all is worth giving those things up.
AlexisTheThugPugStar
@JusticeForJest My honest advice? There is no real need to distance yourself from your friends. I played Barbie's with the same girl that cut and dyed her hair with me. There is no reason to be ashamed of the past, especially when those memories are from so long ago. One day you will look back and, instead of cringing or regretting something you once enjoyed, you will love that little piece of yourself. If it is for the aesthetic of being emo, it's still unnecessary. You can be emo and still have plenty of friends. LET your brighter side show! Being dark and depressed isn't what being emo is about! Sorry if this all sounds harsh, I don't mean it in that way.
