manikmalhotra I don't know if I am angry at what happened or angry at myself for being called a Man or for being a human being.
Disgusting.
Disgusting.
Disgusting.
I tremble at the thought of something like that happening to any of my loved ones or any any girl in general.
I thought after Nirbhaya, this will stop. This will decrease. But no, every day there are so many girls getting raped,molested,assaulted and killed.
And what are we doing about it? Nothing.
Just some trends of #JusticeFor... And the name of justice for who keeps changing.
It's high time we provide girls the safety they deserve. And fuck it,who are we to provided them the safety instead be aware,
If women can make you- Women can break you.
Girls these days aren't weak.
Girls infact were NEVER weak.
I have so many problems with the way things are in this country or anywhere related to girls-
What a beautiful place they make out of this world and this is how we pay them back?
By cheap remarks,
Sexist comments and by raping them to death?
Also,
There is NO JUSTIFICATION OF RAPE.
After this news broke out and that day when I went home,
I looked at my Mom and my wife and saw them laughing at something.
Do you know how amazing a women's laughter is? How musical it is? How peaceful it is?
How can you even ruin any women like that?
I shivered at the thought of this happening to either to them and I wonder what victim's family is going through.💔
And instead of naming the victim rather name the fucking rapists.
Their names need to be out in the open.
It's high time.
I don't want my wife to not wear her favourite shorts and crop top to my concerts just because she will be trolled.
I don't want to be worried about my wife being out after it's dark.
I don't want to start panicking just because some girl I know didn't pick up my calls because the first thought that comes to my mind is if they're fine or not!
@siddyboy39229 Hey buddy,
I have a screenshot of you telling my wife to divorce me otherwise you will rape her?! I have given it to police but enough of hiding this. Calling you out.
I challenge you buddy,
My house's address is out in the open.
Come.
If you have the fucking balls to say it,have the balls to show up at my place.
And SHE will show you who she is.
I won't even interfere I swear.
She will show you the fighter that she is.
I am a public figure and you can say whatever you want to say to me and not anyone from my family,I am sorry! You'll be jailed,bro! Sooner or later.
Giving rape threats to someone isn't okay, it's just that we've normalized it.
Saw someone say "Ohh rapes happen everyday" then fucker talk about it EVERY DAY!
We don't deserve women.
Men don't deserve women.
They are just too good for us. I feel totally unworthy of having them. But I am too selfish to let them go✨
And Angel Manisha,
Darling we don't deserve you,I think God realized it and called you up with him. I am very very sure you are at peace. Please try and make sure that you keep other women here safe from up there❤️
We will try to get you justice,but it's just that "J" in justice stands for JOKE. It'll take time for us to get you justice but we will try baba! Rest in peace,okay:)
Girls who work with me,
Girls around me,
Girls I know and Girls who know me personally or as a fan!
I am just a DM away. Send me a message if something like this has happened to you. Bullying/Harassment/assault or rape. Anything.
Please message me and we will get that shit sorted. We will do this together. Stay strong. Or I should say Stay Fierce. Stay Women😍
Also,
Social media hate is a legit thing:)
Stop fucking saying "Nandini Malhotra,wife of Manik Malhotra"
No,dude.
It's "Nandini Malhotra, astrophysicist"-that will do justice to her achievements.
I'm talking about my wife,
But this applies to everyone,
Each girl.
"Marrying a rockstar is a bed full of roses" I read a tweet from someone.
No buddy,
Marrying a rockstar-It's getting rape threats.
It's being trolled for your looks. (Imagine trolling NANDINI MALHOTRA FOR LOOKS,duh.)
And every girl is gorgeous.
I will obviously have a soft corner for because she's my wife but every girl I meet is beautiful. Their heart is so beautiful. Just their existence is so beautiful.💛
Also so much fuss about why didn't Manik Malhotra take a stand for his wife this last time when #ManikDivorceNandini thing happened! So many DMs about why ain't I standing up for Nandini.
Because I don't have to.
I don't need to.
Nandini Murthy Malhotra is capable of handling things herself.
No girl needs a man to take stand for her. It's bad enough we do it for ourselves.
And I trust Nandini to hit trollers with words;)
She's amaze❤️
I didn't have to say anything.
Rather the police will talk now.
This needs to STOP.
How do you not realize that it's a woman who brought you to this world before doing something like this? Think about your mom or sister.
Saw people saying women should learn self defense. Yes of course they should. But I'm saying why should anything even get to a stage where a woman has to apply her self defense skills?
There's nothing that women has to change.
What has to change is men's eyes, mentality and thought process.
Teach young kids,young boys about how a women should be treated.
Teach young teenager boys about consent. It should be a chapter. Trigonometry can wait.
I don't think I want to have a daughter in a world like this but if I'm lucky enough to have one,
I already know that I'm going to tell her "beta jaake maar ke aa saale ko,case tera baap ladega"
Sorry all you ladies,
Sorry you have to share this world with men. I hope that one day you get what you deserve🤞💜
And my dear fellow mard(s)!
Shukar manao ki auraton ko barabari karni hai,
Badla nai lena. Warna ho chuka humara.🙂👏
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nandinimalhotra Disgusted. Angered. Terrified. Scared (for you men🙃)
#JusticeForManisha🤞
But I am tired.
I'm tired of waking up to the news of girls being raped.
You know what I am more tired of?
People justifying it.
Saw a man say "there is so much unemployment in the country,what do you expect these boys to do?!" Dear gentleman,
We expect them to go get themselves a fucking job.
That doesn't give them the reason to rape a girl. How is unemployment a reason to rape? How is anything a reason to rape?
"Sexual intercourse is a natural urge in men" is also something mentioned by the same gentleman.
Sir,that should be the reasons to justify their browser history and not rape.
THERE IS NO REASON FOR IT.
STOP DEFENDING IT.
This time,
Because they couldn't find fault in her clothes-because it wasn't the night time so they could blame her ke raatke time bahar nai aana chaiye.
Girls should stop wearing short clothes because boys take that as some hint?❌
Boys should be taught how to treat women.✅
Girls should not go out fearing men?❌
Call your son home early.✅
Girls should sit a certain way?❌
Boy should look at girls a certain way.✅
It's high time we call people out.
For rapes. For molestation. For making us feel uncomfortable.
For sexist remarks.
And why to even discuss the topic that "not all men are same".
If you're not a man like that you will not be bothered by "men will be men" statement.
But if your ego is so fragile that you comment saying "not all men" than you definitely are one such man.
I'm so proud of be surrounded by amazing men who make me feel comfortable in every way possible.
There is this video that went viral few months back of me and Manik posing in front of cameras where Manik pulled me back as I was running away from camera and wrapped his hand around my waist from back but it directly touched my stomach as I was wearing a crop top. You all noticed how he immediately took his hand away and whispered "is it fine?!" And kept his hand back after I said Yes.
You know what that is?
Consent.🙂
And even if you're a husband,
That doesn't give a right to do anything you want to your wife.
And you know where boys learn these things from? Upbringing. Parenting. Company they share. And their own way of thinking.
My mother in law still scolds Manik if he tries to instruct me about something. That's exactly how it should be.
Stop letting men have power over you,ladies.
They don't have any power over us.
Women are considered to be weak but have you ever seen anything as fragile as male ego?🙃
It's so easy to hurt a man's ego.
And also often times,
Rejection is taken as insult.
No guys,
Take rejection as just a "no" and move on. It's not an insult.
Normalize taking "NO" as an answer.
Or should I say get used to taking no for an answer.
Don't be so butt hurt about everything,dear men.
This is a country where a man will judge you for buying a cigarette that he himself is selling.
Taking this opportunity to say that please be an equal in a relationship,in a friendship. Don't let anyone tell you that you're weak. Just turn around and say I AM NOT FUCKING WEAK.
Yesterday My husband hugged me as he came home and said "I hope we don't have daughter,you all don't deserve to be in such a shitty place"
And that is how you know he's not one of "those" men. He's the one why we say "not all men are same".
For all I know he has always wanted a daughter. He always told me how he wanted a princess. A small Nandini.
And when he said he didn't want a daughter anymore,it broke me.
I broke down hugging him as-as a woman I know how I get looked at. How scared I am to alone at night.
Later that night he came to me and kissed my forehead and whispered "I want a princess,agar uske saath kuch huaa na toh usse bolunga ke bacha maar dalo sale ko, case tumhara baap ladega".
Yes,
Not all men are same.
My husband is not one of those men. But he knows he isn't. He doesn't boast about it. He shudders to hold me tightly. He thinks twice before manhandling me because forget me or my family,his father would take his case if something happens to me.
And that is how parents should be.
Firm. Somethings can't be compromised.
Not all men.
But enough men that every girl has atleast one uncomfortable experience with a man.
Enough men that we all mention to that one guy as "creep"
Enough men that we are now afraid of even telling you that we are afraid.
Not all men.
But enough men that ALL women are scared to be home alone at night or go out alone at night.
Stop trying to be a Kabir Singh in a world where there are no Preeti. Nobody here is going to tolerate your nonsense. Preeti didn't slap back,take it as fiction. Girls here will slap back.
And that slap will revaporate in your ears for years to come because of your male ego🙃🙂
Without hermoine,harry would have died in first book!🤗
Yes we will learn self defense,
But you men- Please learn self control no!
We need to stop saying and start doing. Punishment of these things should be so so hard that rapists would think before doing this.
If you blame the victim for being raped because her clothes asked for it. Blame the bank for getting robbed because it had money.
When picnics happen,
Stop telling girls what to wear by holding a personal meeting between girls and teacher rather teach boys about where to look.
Stop teaching important things like menstrual cycle in hush hush tones.
Say it out loud.
And you men,
We survive cramps.
Who are you?
I hope that one day we will have a world where men will be brought up in such a way that they won't anymore be aroused seeing any women to do something without her consent.
Enough of those idiots cracking jokes on feminism,
When we say "we are equal" and one of you would say "ohh that means I can slap you?!" Buddy 1 in every 3 women are harassed,I think you already are slapping us. We are asking you to STOP.
STOP.
JUST STOP.
And not being a rapist does not end your job,
You gotta be anti-rapist. You gotta stand up for women who're being bullied in front of you. More often than not,women won't need you to stand up but a word of motivation won't hurt.
When I discussed this with my most favourite man,my husband.
He told me "you're right baba,a women should know how to change a tire,
But she should never be put in a position to change the tire herself"
And that's it❤️
That's how men gotta think.
Then we can hope for a change.
Otherwise we'll ALWAYS be a nation who fails to protect girls.
And Manisha didn't get raped,
Say "those bastards raped her"
Stop being passive,
It's high time.❌
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My blood boils to see what's happening in our country since past 2-3 days.
I'm so angered. What's happened is barbaric. What is this law system that burns the victim in urgency and keeps the rapists safe?
We need to introspect as a nation. Real hard introspection.
Also,
One of my brother's day before yesterday's morning messaged me suddenly "Hey,
I'm so sorry you've to bleed every month and are forced to believe that to share that pain or to talk about it is embarrassing. Sorry that your freedom depends on us men,I wish I could do something about it" I just replied to him
"The fact that you thought this,means you're doing something about this❤️"
And yes you not so overpowering and chauvinist malessss!!!
Be happy that we want equality and not revenge.
And all you dads,
Go tell your angels ki "case tera baap ladega"❤️✅
Proud to be a woman.✨💜