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" skinny shaming in kpop should stop. people
always try to hide skinny shaming with quote
"concern" ofc, because talking abt someone
else's body is your "CONCERN" it isn't your business whether they're healthy or not. yeah, I said it. even if they aren't healthy it's not your problem to go talk about it on the medias like you're their mom. I understand that some are really skinny and that we tend to care about their well being, but we're fans mind you. we don't know anything about their private lives. If the idol has insecurities like every other human being do you think your comment will be seen as concern? anywho, skinny-shaming is just as bad as fat- shaming get that in your head, thanks." - Anon
i agree and disagree. although many say it might not be your business to worry about an idols weight- i 100% think it's okay to worry and and genuinely be concerned with someone's weight. weather their over or under weight... it's okay to express your concern but you don't have to do it in a "negative" way that might hurt their feelings. i think an idols health is their is a fan's business (in some cases), and that's really all I'm going to say on that topic- however skinny shaming is just as real as fat shaming. and honestly you can't even tell me you haven't fat or skinny shamed at least once in your life- even if you don't realize you're doing/did it. it's okay to be worried about someone's health/weight but it's not okay to be mean about it. hope that makes sense lmao- but yes i understand the "someone's body isn't your concern" part as well.. if someone's happy with themselves and their body there's no reason to bring them down absolutely not. But if their not healthy, i don't think it's okay for them to just stay like that (?)... like lmao idk if that makes sense. It's okay to love yourself, but you should also want better for yourself as well. Does that make sense?
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