Life lessons

Victim

This is something i learned from my one of the past friend. I don't have any right to judge her but i am just telling you what i really learnt.
She was and is a girl with good heart. She is someone who gets really close to people emotionally.
Lesson i learnt from her is you are not a victim.
You are not a victim when your friends leave you. You are not a victim if people do bad to you. You are not the victim of your life experiences.
She used to cry and feel sad when her close friends left her. But it was what life was trying to taught her. She used to play victim and use to think that those people are bad, they did bad to her. And it's ok to feel this way but everytime when life is going to hit you, you just can't cry and play victim.
You are not a victim. You are not what people do to you.
If you are always going to play victim and let others define what you feel and how you feel you are not going to be happy.
YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM