"Your daugther scored good marks in her board exams."
"Your daughter came first in an essay competition."
"Your daughter topped the college."
"Your daugther got her dream job."
"Your daughter is a famous personality."
"Your daughter is the reason for your happiness"
Makes you feel good, right?
Now,
"Her husband stopped her from studying."
"Her husband insulted her."
"Her husband abused her."
"Her husband insulted you and your wife."
"Her husband makes her cry."
It hurts,right?
Remember your wife is someone's daugther. Even he raised her with love. While you are trying to bring her down remember that one day someone else might treat you daughter the same way. And then it won't make you feel good!
Humans realise their mistakes only when their kids suffer the same way! You cannot change your daughter's fate but at least don't be the reason for her suffering!
Tears in your wife's eyes should remind you of your daughter. You hate tears in her eyes, right? What will you do if someone makes her cry? Will you hurt that human being? Then your father-in-law should also do that!
Fear Allah!!!
Tag your husband, brothers or cousins and help them if you can!