If the talk is your passion make sure it is wise and modest when you are around with your man. Commonly, women are fun of engaging in an argument with an inappropriate response, cursing, swearing and bad jokes if they felt they are losing.
Goofing around can be fun but make sure that when you make a statement it will not demean or belittle man's ego. Man has an inert sensitivity which can only be manifested when a man will just keep silent when he is offended by your words. He will never let it show but you can sense it by his gesture and through his simple but deadly remarks.
Criticizing while your boyfriend or spouse is with his pack of friends is impious especially when you are cursing him. Give him consideration and hold your tongue thrice as needed. When you embarrass your man in front of his company his worth will be devalued and his friends will show him disrespectful behavior towards him sooner or later as a result of your imprudence.
Do not rumor your boyfriend or broadcast your fight and misunderstanding among your relatives and friends. Whatever you had in your relationship whether it is winning or crying it should be kept between the two of you alone. No drama on social media!
Never criticize your boyfriend or spouse's mother. There are qualities in his mother that he found and you so you should be careful in giving your opinion when he verbalizes his feeling if he has a misunderstanding with his mother.
Learn to control your emotions when you are in anger because of your disappointment with your man. Do not transform your anger into unkind words that will leave a deep wound on his pride. When you keep on repeating his negativity the possible result is that he will accept that negativism and will continue to do that as a never-ending cycle.
Man is like a sponge they will absorb whatever words you feed them. If you will give them sweet, sincere and thoughtful words you can squeeze out gentle and tender words from their inner being.
Sweet words must always come from woman's lips whether it is better or bitter days to expect a positive reinforcement from a man.