Be cringey. Live ur best life.
Call all of ur energy back to u right now.
Honor the needs of ur internal world.
You can live a goal based life ( i wanna lose 20 pounds, i wanna gain 10k followers)- u r always going to be miserable, constantly chasing smthg that sometimes u cant even have, postponing ur happiness OR a value based life (more abstract)(i wanna be kind, compassionate)- where u r actually living in the present and making urself a better person rather than dumping ur worth into whether or not u meet a goal.
Ur potential is never determined by the contents of ur current reality.
You wanting a sign IS a sign.
Give up small fights