What the Kink?!

By kinky_ghost

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The world of kink and BDSM is absolutely fascinating! However, it can be really confusing for beginners. Thi... More

Editorial
Kink vs. Fetish
BDSM and Kink
Fundamental principles
Aftercare
Dom, sub and switch
Brat and brat tamer
Sadism and masochism
Degradation and praise
Bondage and Shibari
Voyeurism and exhibitionism
Edging

Safewords

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By kinky_ghost

Most people have heard of a so called "Safeword" before. In kink and BDSM, it plays a fundamental role to ensure the safety of every party participating.

A safeword is basically a code word which gets prearranged. If the safeword is used during the scene, the action will be stopped immediately. It can be used if a boundary is crossed or something is physically wrong. Safewords should also be included in vanilla sex.

A safeword doesn't necessarily have to be verbal. A gesture or similar can be used as a safeword as well. Especially if speaking may not be possible in a situation.

Using "Stop" as a safeword is just fine. However, to some people, saying "Stop" during a sexual activity could also mean "Oh yes, please keep going". Using an abstract which isn't usually used during sex (ex. "Pineapple") may be a better option.

An improved variation of using only one safeword is the traffic light method. Red, orange (or yellow) and green.

Red: Stop immediately! Something is seriously wrong.

Orange/Yellow: I'm not quite comfortable with the situation. Please be more careful/change the action/ask me what's going on.

Green: Everything is okay. Keep going. (Usually used when the other party asks you about your wellbeing and you want to tell them that everything is fine).

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