"i realized i ask my husband if he's okay a lot. even if he seems completely fine i'll still ask "you good babe?" or "are you okay?" or at least ask how his day is going just to make sure he's not having a bad one. Even if he tells me he's fine, i'll ask him if there is anything i can do to make the day better. I'm sure he gets annoyed by my constant asking. it can happen multiple times a day. it seems like a habit. And now, i finally think i know why i do this.
When i was falling apart, no one ever asked if i was okay."